the patch to rename kdeeject -> tdeeject, should be applied to "k"dedesktop too,see Screenshots:
Hi Werner, what version of TDE are you running? I tried to replicate the same behavior on my system (Debian/Jessie, development TDE version), but everytime the disk was ejected properly. I tried audio CD, video DVD, data CD and data DVD. As a note, my right-click popup menu is slightly different from yours: the eject action is not in a submenu but on the main popup menu.
Cheers Michele