I rebooted, and took step by step photos of how I installed Debian. ( PS that email is stuck in moderation due to its size)
Rebooted
logged back in and nothing would open like the CHRIS folder or the trash can.
I had earlier today ( a couple hours ago ) sat Thunar as my default file manager, and everything was working GREAT!
I switched everything back to Konq but now I am getting " DCOP ERRORS" every time I click on anything. The only thing that doesn't throw up an error is Firefox ESR.
I am trying to decide now, do I want to give TDE another shot, or go back to LXDE?
I am in the process of salvaging my data and backing it up to nextcloud now.
Chris