[tde-users] upgrade starting TDM though not already running

When my /proc/cmdline includes a 3, and/or when # systemctl get-default multi-user.target and TDM is not running, doing an apt-get upgrade that includes a newer tdm, starts tdm, wresting the console from whatever I am doing while the upgrade is in process. I don't want that to happen. It's very disturbing. Is there a way to configure it only to restart, but never start, as a result of an apt/apt-get/aptitude installation or upgrade process? -- Evolution as taught in public schools is, like religion, based on faith, not based on science. Team OS/2 ** Reg. Linux User #211409 ** a11y rocks! Felix Miata