Questions on getting kde4(UGH) stuff, what did I do wrong?

Hi Folks, Found TrinityKDE and was VERY happy! Short of a many page diatribe :-), I loath kde4 :). I downloaded and burned the LiveCD and fired it up (happy dance) and just to see what would happen I elected to add kpat (my great time waster :) and much to my disgust I ended up with a very large chunk of kde4 and the kde4 version of kpat(UGH). I do not want *anything* to do with kde4. I've shared the link with a number of people who are VERY happy to hear about this project! How do I set this up so I end up with kde3.5 goodies and none of the kde4 festering sewage? Thanks VERY much in advance!