On Wednesday 28 October 2020 07:41:17 Gene Heskett via
tde-users wrote:
On Wednesday 28 October 2020 08:04:43 Janek
Stolarek wrote:
You have
me curious at this point, have neither of you worked in
an office environment before?
1. I haven't. I work at a university, which isn't exactly office.
2. Trinity mailing list is not an office environment. It's a place
created for technical discussion for people using TDE and needing
help with it.
I have no intention (or, in fact, possibility) of forcing my
opinion here. If things continue the way they are at the moment
I'll probably unsubscribe from the list because I don't feel it
serves its intended purpose.
Janek
While I, long since retired, and now living alone at 86 yo, (the
wife is in a rest home under hospice care) usually enjoy the
chit-chat until its way way off topic, One can make new friends that
way. So I have no objection to the "community" atmosphere.
Cheers, Gene Heskett
And I believe that you've hit the crux of the matter, Gene.
Some people -- forgive my generalizations, but they're probably pretty
close -- have jobs, and must deal with technical issues as part of
their work. As such, anything that veers more than a few inches
off-topic, or which is not strictly business, or which annoys them for
other reasons: well, they must regard our chit-chat not only as a
waste of their time, but indeed as obstacles to whatever they are
trying to do.
Gene, being retired and living alone now, enjoys the same things that
irritate others on the list. There are about half a dozen, maybe a
dozen of us, who tend to get into these off-topic threads, which
happen gradually at first, but then grow exponentially, like a
snowball effect. I think it's that we get a few kicks out of one
another, but not enough that we want to chat on a regular basis, nor
to get too deeply into one another's lives.
And I myself probably spend more time on the list at present, but only
because I still have yet to recover data from that hard drive, which
contains about 40 years' of research, my entire digital library, field
research, interviews, along with everything I ever wrote or published
since about the year 1975. My plans for this winter (once I had got my
new printer) were to hole up here like a total hermit, and bring my
materials together into some kind of readable form. And then my hard
drive crashed, and so far I've been stuck, and just spinning wheels.
If I could only recover my data, then would only rarely see me here,
as I do have better things to do with my time; only I cannot do them
just yet.
By the way, when one threatens (whether idly or "for real") to
unsubscribe from the mailing list, then you are being
passive-aggressive: if we won't play the game like you demand, you'll
go home.
But I don't want things to be this way. I would really like everybody
just to get along, and it seems to me that we spend more time
discussing this same ongoing problem than we do in trying to solve it.
If you aren't going to recommend a solution, then you are just
kvetch-kvetch-kvetching again.
Don't worry, I won't live for ever; I may not even make it more than
another year or two, unless things change dramatically for the better.
And I do have something I want to accomplish yet before that time
comes. If I didn't need to use a computer to finish this work, then I
would never have gone online, never have joined a mailing list, and
the world would be a better place
As it is, we are stuck with one another, and I suggest that we try to
come up with reasonable, livable solutions, rather than complaining
and wishing for more rules, more control my moderators, censoring or
filtering or whatever other draconian measures some would envision, to
try to control what they regard as chaos, and therefore,
counterproductive or negative. (Some of us rather enjoy chaos.)
I believe that Slavek, among others, has expressed a wish that we
maintain a friendly and open atmosphere in the mailing list. On the
other hand, we all know that the conversations go so far off-topic
that we might as well be a social network sometimes.
And this reminds me: I, and others, have mentioned something about
creating a forum, where we could start threads on whatever we wanted,
even (for example) archaeological discoveries in London's underground.
Then we could keep the mailing list pure and uncluttered by off-topic
stuff, which, one hopes, might keep the strictly-business types
content.
If anybody else has any actual recommendations or suggestions, then I
think that now would be the time to come forward. Merely wishing for
other people to shut up or quit the list, or threatening to quit the
list oneself: this is not constructive or useful at all.
And by the way, we waste far more time on these discussions than we do
in occasional chit-chat.
Bill
I personally hate forums. Why? Because you HAVE to goto them, log in and
in general mess around 4 or 5 minutes just to see the list, which on
some forums like for the rpi's, several hundred screen fulls let alone
search thru it to find something interesting, or even any reply's to
your plea for help.
Email just drops in at 2 minute intervals courtesy of takeing the email
suckage away from kmail with fetchmail running as a background daemon,
then a wrapper script I wrote years ago that uses inotify-wait to tell
kmail to go get the mail that procmail just dumped into /var/mail/ and
it uses dbus to tell kmail to go get it. And a quick glance determines
whether I answer, or hit the + key for the next one. So other than this
typeing, my email is a 2 click operation, once to select the type of
reply, and once to send it when I've rattled the current cage
sufficiently. Computers should DO work FOR you, not make work. Way too
many think jumping thru all those hoops in how it works, to me the
challenge is to just make it work FOR you.
Cheers, Gene Heskett
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